Great Expectations

February 10th, 2009

I’m been meaning to write this since we got into our new home here in Nampa, ID. I see it’s been months since I’ve posted anything of my thoughts here. I do update Twitter just about every day though…

When we first got here we thought we’d have to rent something. Then with how the market was it looked like we might be able to buy something small after all. Then God totally blew us away with the house he provided for us. It’s actually the nicest home we’ve ever had. It totally exceeded my expectations. I don’t think I’ve ever been so thankful.

Then I realized something. The reason I was so thankful is because my expectations were blown away. And I also realized that the reason I’m not normally so thankful is that I really expect way too much.

William Carey, the Father of Modern Missions said, “Expect great things from God, attempt great things for God.” I want to have the kind of expectations that Carey had. If you know about his life as the first missionary to India, his expectations of God were just that God would use him in the circumstances he was in. From what I can tell, he had no expectations about what those circumstances would be. I think Carey learned the secret to contentment that Paul talks about. Perhaps that’s also the secret to thankfulness.

From the fullness of his grace we have all received one blessing after another.  — John 1:16

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If I Had Another Son, I’d Name Him Peter

May 30th, 2008

I love Peter. He’s such an encouragement. Or rather what God did in his life is an encouragement. If God gave us another son, I’d probably name him Peter.

Playwright George Bernard Shaw said, “A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.” He easily could have been talking about Peter. Peter was never afraid to make mistakes, and that led to a number of important learning experiences throughout his days with Jesus.

Read more here.

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God Can Get ‘er Done

May 27th, 2008

From today’s devos:

Jonah didn’t reach the pinnacle of godly behavior or attitude, but God still used him to deliver His message to Nineveh, and to us. His saving grace was that he recognized his need for God, and he called on Him for help. If you ever doubt your ability to accomplish what God has called you to do, call out to Him for help. Don’t rely on your strength alone to achieve great things for God. If He can send a fish to save a reluctant prophet, He can provide for you.

Relying on God instead of on myself is a major thing He’s been teaching me through deputation. I’ve been accused of arrogance and pride from time to time. Hopefully I’m making progress, but I really don’t know. It’s hard for me to see specifics in my life that I need to change in this area. But I am learning that at least that “without him I can do nothing.”

Please pray for me. I’ve been discouraged lately and this is seems to be some how part of that.

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More Important Matters

May 12th, 2008

This verse was part of my devotions this morning:

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cummin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former” (Matthew 23:23).

I had never noticed before that God calls “justice, mercy and faithfulness” to be “more important matters” than tithing.

We’re going to have to find a new church once we move to Idaho. I’d really like to be part of a church that was a “sending” church for us; that is a church that provides in the neighborhood of 20% of our support. But now I’m going to be looking for a church that emphases the “more important matters”.

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Core Group Video

May 8th, 2008

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Last Words

May 3rd, 2008

I’m preparing the last message for my Core Group. I started teaching this guy’s Bible study 6 years ago when they where in 7th grade. They are now Seniors in high school and will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  The last things people say are especially significant. So I thought a Biblical review of last words would be a good way to end.

The Last Words of John

“Now Herod had arrested John and bound him and put him in prison because of Herodias, his brother Philip’s wife, 4for John had been saying to him: ‘It is not lawful for you to have her.’ Herod wanted to kill John, but he was afraid of the people, because they considered him a prophet.

On Herod’s birthday the daughter of Herodias danced for them and pleased Herod so much that he promised with an oath to give her whatever she asked. 8Prompted by her mother, she said, ‘Give me here on a platter the head of John the Baptist.’ The king was distressed, but because of his oaths and his dinner guests, he ordered that her request be granted and had John beheaded in the prison. His head was brought in on a platter and given to the girl, who carried it to her mother. John’s disciples came and took his body and buried it. Then they went and told Jesus” ( Matthew 14:3-12).

The Last Words of Jesus Before His Death

“Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother, his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, ‘Dear woman, here is your son,’ and to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.

Later, knowing that all was now completed, and so that the Scripture would be fulfilled, Jesus said, ‘I am thirsty.’ A jar of wine vinegar was there, so they soaked a sponge in it, put the sponge on a stalk of the hyssop plant, and lifted it to Jesus’ lips. When he had received the drink, Jesus said, ‘It is finished.”‘ With that, he bowed his head and gave up his spirit” ( John 19:25-30).

The Last Words of Jesus Before His Assention

“So when they met together, they asked him, ‘Lord, are you at this time going to restore the kingdom to Israel?’

He said to them: ‘It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority. 8But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.’

After he said this, he was taken up before their very eyes, and a cloud hid him from their sight” (Acts 1:6-9).

The Last Words of Stephen

“You stiff-necked people, with uncircumcised hearts and ears! You are just like your fathers: You always resist the Holy Spirit! 52Was there ever a prophet your fathers did not persecute? They even killed those who predicted the coming of the Righteous One. And now you have betrayed and murdered him— 53you who have received the law that was put into effect through angels but have not obeyed it” (Acts 7:51-53).

The Last Words of Paul to The Ephesian Elders

17From Miletus, Paul sent to Ephesus for the elders of the church. 18When they arrived, he said to them: “You know how I lived the whole time I was with you, from the first day I came into the province of Asia. 19I served the Lord with great humility and with tears, although I was severely tested by the plots of the Jews. 20You know that I have not hesitated to preach anything that would be helpful to you but have taught you publicly and from house to house. 21I have declared to both Jews and Greeks that they must turn to God in repentance and have faith in our Lord Jesus.

22“And now, compelled by the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there. 23I only know that in every city the Holy Spirit warns me that prison and hardships are facing me. 24However, I consider my life worth nothing to me, if only I may finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me—the task of testifying to the gospel of God’s grace.

25“Now I know that none of you among whom I have gone about preaching the kingdom will ever see me again. 26Therefore, I declare to you today that I am innocent of the blood of all men. 27For I have not hesitated to proclaim to you the whole will of God. 28Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers.[a] Be shepherds of the church of God,[b] which he bought with his own blood. 29I know that after I leave, savage wolves will come in among you and will not spare the flock. 30Even from your own number men will arise and distort the truth in order to draw away disciples after them. 31So be on your guard! Remember that for three years I never stopped warning each of you night and day with tears.

32“Now I commit you to God and to the word of his grace, which can build you up and give you an inheritance among all those who are sanctified. 33I have not coveted anyone’s silver or gold or clothing. 34You yourselves know that these hands of mine have supplied my own needs and the needs of my companions. 35In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ ”

36When he had said this, he knelt down with all of them and prayed. 37They all wept as they embraced him and kissed him. 38What grieved them most was his statement that they would never see his face again. Then they accompanied him to the ship” ( Acts 20:17-38).

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The Edge Of Free Will – A Prayer

May 2nd, 2008

We have to pray within the will of God. If we could just pray people into salvation, we certainly would. But there’s this pesky thing called free will that we have to deal with. BTW – The best reason I can come up with for free will is that it must be kind of like how kids feel about their parents’ love. You’ll hear them say, “you have to love me, your my mom.” And because parents “have to love” their kids, it doesn’t count some how. So I guess if we had to love God, then maybe it wouldn’t count in a similar kind of way.

What ever the actual reason is, it’s clear that God has given us free will. We can’t pray people into salvation. We have to allow for free will. But that’s it. That’s the only place we have to stop. I believe we can pray people right up to the edge of free will. We can pray that they will get all their questions answered. We can pray that they will understand the message. We can even pray that they will know that’s it true. We can pray that God will work in their life such that the only thing left for the person to do is say, “yes.”

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I Need A Treadmill – To Build A Treadmill Desk

February 15th, 2008

Anyone have a treadmill they’re not using and want out of the way? I could give up to $300.00.

I need to build a Treadmill Desk. The idea is that instead of sitting at a desk all day, you work while walking at about 1 MPH. This was recommended to me by my cardiologist and is based on research by another Dr. @ Mayo. Here are a bunch of links I’ve collected on the topic. I hope to have my Treadmill Desk built by 4/1 at the latest.

http://bradrhoads.blogspot.com/search/label/treadmill%20desk

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Stay At The Table

January 28th, 2008

The idea of “family worship” has been getting a lot attention at our home church. It’s a pretty simple idea: us Dad’s are supposed to be the primary spiritual leaders in our homes. We’re supposed to be the priests, prophets, and protectors of our family.

This past weekend I attended our men’s retreat in Lake Geneva, WI. The speaker was Voddie Baucham. He suggested that to be a spiritual leader meant that we should do these things with our families:

  • Read Scripture together
  • Pray together
  • Sing together
  • Memorize Scripture together

I’ve been convicted about this and have tried to implement this in the past. Our Family Pastor, Rob Reinow has been teaching this for some time. His Visionary Parenting course is outstanding. But I had not been very successful for very long at implementing this in our home.

I was convicted about this again this weekend and thought a lot about why I have failed in the past. I think God gave me at least part of the answer. I realized that even though we eat (at least) dinner together most nights of the week, there’s typically little conversation and when someone was done eating, they’d head off to play or watch TV. God gave me a revelation. I need my family to Stay At The Table!

In fact that’s just what I’m calling this event of family worship in our home, Stay At The Table. The idea works on so many levels. First, it’s literally what I’m having my family do. No more dine-and-dash! We’re going to stay at the table and hear God’s word and talk about it and pray together. We’ll probably sing some of the time, although it’s been a custom since the kids were born to sing to them at bed time. I haven’t quite figured out where the memorization is going to come in, but the kids are in AWANA, so we’ll probably play off of that.

Then besides the literal meaning of Stay At The Table, there’s the fact that God’s word is spiritual food that we need to keep taking in. Plus, as my kids become teenagers, I want them to Stay At The Table of our home and of God’s word.

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Don’t Worry

January 24th, 2008

Today’s devotional was on Matthew 6:25-34, the passage about not being anxious about physical needs because God knows about them. After all, he cares for the lilies of the fields and the birds of the air, so isn’t obvious he’ll take care of us? I guess that’s hyperbole or some other literary device, because there must be millions of Christians living in poverty around the world.

But this message must also be for those who are in poverty. They’re not supposed to worry. I can’t image how they wouldn’t. But I certainly don’t have reason to worry. I wonder why I still do. Lord help me not to.

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